Thursday, November 17, 2011

A few of our favorite things

‘Tis the season and all that, or nearly so, even though it is definitely still June outside here!  We’ve tried to be honest about our struggles, yet still upbeat, and as we move into our sixth month in Cameroon and look ahead to In-Service Training and our first Thanksgiving and Christmas here, it seems an appropriate time to consider and share some the things we’ve enjoyed about being here.

So, in no particular order, we like…

…that it’s winter, and we’re not bundled in three (minimum) layers of clothes when we leave the house…
…the way our favorite market mammas’ and shop keepers’ eyes light with genuine happiness to see us when we do our shopping – and if we’ve been away for awhile, we’re greeted with, “You have been missing!”
…the way our neighbors call out, “You are going?,” when we leave for the day, and “You are back?,” when we come home.  “Yes, we are back,” we say.  “You are welcome!” they cry…
…the way our coworkers, and random strangers, greet us in the same way every day, “You are welcome!”…
…the beautiful Muslim prayer rugs and traditional slatted wood chairs we decorate our home with…
…the way, amused at us shouting, “Ntarinkon!,” at passing taxis and inexplicably (though we allegedly speak the same language) not being understood by the drivers, a passer-by will greet us, ask our names, introduce themselves, and then hail a cab with a call of, “Ntarinkon!,” that to our ears sounds exactly like what we said, yet is understood by the taxi drivers…
…laying in the hammocks we brought home from Mexico a decade ago on our front porch after a long day in Africa…
…grilled fish with basil sauce, soya (thin-sliced and seasoned grilled beef kabobs), kati kati (grilled chicken), njama njama (huckleberry greens), achu (a kind of thick, rich stew made with palm oil and beef broth), peanut soup…
…the way our community host will brag to others that we’ve eaten achu…
…the way coworkers will ask how we’re doing, and then, to a positive answer, will say, “Thank God!”  Well…yes, indeed!…
…the way, if one of us is alone somewhere, people will always say to greet the other…
…how, if you ask a Cameroonian how they are doing, the answer invariably begins with, “no,” as in, “No, fine!  Thank you!”…
…that bananas, pineapples, tomatoes, onions, garlic, rice, pasta, canned tuna, and peanut butter, to name a few, are readily available in Bamenda…
…that we live in Bamenda…
…that Cameroonians always express approval when you buy Cameroonian things.  “Your (house, kitchen, cooking pots, chairs, necklace, clothing, etc.) is good!”…
…local honey and jams…
…hot, sun-dried laundry fresh off the line…

Monday, November 7, 2011

Settling in

So, we’ve been in Cameroon for about five months now.  It feels both so much longer than that and like the time has flown by, and IST (In-Service Training) is just around the corner.  We’ve flown across the world, made it through three months of training, moved to the beautiful North West Region, triumphed in our struggle for housing, got a bed made, survived the election (a tense time for Peace Corps admin, but quiet for us volunteers), got a futon made, and co-hosted a dinner for the new training group (that’s right, we’re no longer the new kids!).  The house we fought for is starting to be a cozy retreat and welcoming place for us to come home to, a few plumbing issues aside (certain faucets don’t exactly turn off, unless you cut each room’s main valve outside and our landlord hasn’t seen it as a priority – we occasionally really miss our awesome landlord in Pittsburgh, but also really just have to laugh about it).

We’re learning who our favorite market mammas are to buy produce from, and our neighbors all know we belong in the neighborhood now.  At this point we can pretty well find our way around town and find the essentials, and - another thing no one tells you about Peace Corps – we recycle in ways that previously we would have thought extreme and absurd (cookie trays leftover from the Girl Scout Samoas box make excellent silverware holders).  At work, Jack has been teaching computer skills at the Delegation of Basic Education, and Kiyomi has been conducting an organizational assessment at her NGO.  It all moves at a slower pace here, which takes some getting used to, but believing that we’re contributing to the success of our community has a way of making any challenge seem lighter.  In the coming months, we’re looking forward to collaborating with another volunteer to teach basic literacy at a health clinic nearby, and are hoping in the next year to have the opportunity to start teaching civic responsibility and community building with some education materials developed by LAGA (The Last Great Ape Association) that Peace Corps Cameroon is interested in testing and adapting.

LAGA is amazing, and we are really excited about their vision.  The organization’s function is to preserve great apes, their habitat, and to prevent poaching; their purpose is to demonstrate a functional model of a new kind of NGO that, rather than just asking for money, trying to create new laws, and working within a defunct system, instead seeks to fight corruption, enforce laws already on the books, and create a better system.  We’re really excited about the collaboration with Peace Corps in seeking to teach civic responsibility with a community-based approach, and we’re more excited about the opportunity to take part in testing these materials.

Wish List 2.0

So, what do you send the Peace Corps Volunteer who has everything?  For those of you who have asked, now that we’re getting a little more settled here in Mankon country, here in alphabetical order (just because) are some comforts from home that we’ve missed.  Also, our new address is at the bottom.

Almonds
a wall Calendar
Canned salmon
Coffee (Bolivian, Ethiopian, Kenyan, Mexican, Rwandan)
Crossword books
Dried fruit (apricots, blueberries, cranberries)
Ear plugs (see The Rooster mentioned in previous posts)
Flax seeds
Granola
Hashi (also known as chopsticks)
Hops
Hydrometer
Malt (yes, Jack wants to make beer)
Pecans
Pumpkin Spice Lattes (okay, we know those won’t mail well…but we can dream…)
Sleep masks
Soba noodles
Sudoku books
Tabasco sauce
small, individual Thermoses (for taking coffee to work – no office brewers here!)
Toe socks (to go with our Vibram Five-Fingers!)
Walnuts
Whole grain pasta
Whole wheat crackers
Worchestershire sauce

Our Address in Bamenda:

Jack and Kiyomi Gaines
Peace Corps Volunteers
Peace Corps Cameroon
Bamenda Regional Office
P.O. Box 837 – Mankon – Bamenda
Mezam Division
Northwest Region – Cameroon

Saturday, November 5, 2011

Things no one tells you…

Things no one tells you about joining the Peace Corps.

It’s very much like any other government job – lots of paperwork, lots of hurrying, lots of waiting, lots of not a lot getting done.  Bring a book.

It’s not at all like any other job – at all.  It’s cute that you thought you might walk into your office and be able to ask someone what you’re supposed to do though.  I see here on your resume it says you’re a creative, independent self-starter… good thing, too!  Go to it!

Peanut butter is more American than apple pie – who knew?  We went through two and a half big containers of Jif peanut butter in our first week and a half at post.  Peanut butter did not play a large role in our diet before leaving the States – organic, fair trade, fresh ground honey roasted peanuts are tasty now and again, sure, but two and a half tubs of the stuff?? Salsa or hummus, maybe… not peanut butter.  We had an inexplicable, insatiable craving.  It must be laced in the water or pumped into the air back home, and we were just in withdrawal.  Other volunteers have mentioned similar experiences.

Being awakened to a spectacular sunrise by the crowing of a rooster… leads to murderous thoughts, throwing rocks, and chasing a giant chicken around the yard.  Not a lot of sunrise reflection or appreciation.  Its not pretty.  The crow of a rooster outside your bedroom window is like being awakened by the sound of someone standing beside your bed and screaming at the top of their lungs.  Repeatedly.  It’s really enough to drive one to…wait for it… murder most fowl.

Food that feeds the body is good.  A meal to nourish the soul, home cooked with good company, commiseration and a dash of encouragement, is essential for this expat stuff…  Even better if it’s made with familiar ingredients!

The sound of your brother’s voice will make you happier than you can remember being.  And then will make you cry.

Depression, rather than something you seek “help” or medication for, is more of a state of being, alternating regularly with euphoria.  It’s either bi-polar disorder, or “culture fatigue,” but either way, those periodic glimpses of equilibrium are what you’re looking for.  They get more frequent, and sometimes you even find yourself looking around and feeling strangely comfortable, content…even, oh, yes, at home.

Saturday, October 22, 2011

And the moment we’ve all been waiting for

 

http://edition.cnn.com/2011/10/22/world/africa/cameroon-election-outcome/index.html?hpt=hp_t2

While we are strictly apolitical while serving as volunteers, we are happy to say that the election results were announced last night without incident.  Thanks for all the prayers!

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Getting settled

Hey Friends and Family!  We got to keep the house in the Ntarinkon Quarter after someone from the main office in Yaounde came to check out the situation personally.  We move in this weekend, and are so glad to finally be getting settled.  It’s been a whirlwind of buying some essential furniture and houseware items and getting familiarized with our respective offices.  We both have a half-time schedule right now, three days a week and four hours a day – we can’t complain!  The rest of our time during these first months is spent getting to know our way around our city, getting to know our neighbors and starting the process of integrating into our community.  We have an offer of cooking lessons from one of our neighbors that we can’t wait to take up!

For the month of October we’ll be on Stand-fast, which means we stay put in our town, no traveling to neighboring towns for any reason, because of the election.  The national election takes place on the 9th.  The campaign season lasts about a week here – for the last week we’ve seen flyers and people have been driving around town with loud speakers.  Then everyone gets to vote for one of the candidates, and then we hope to have results in a week or two.  Most Cameroonians seem to be like most Americans when it comes to voting – as long as their day to day lives aren’t disrupted, they aren’t terribly concerned about the outcome.  But, just as in the States civic responsibility has been on the rise in recent years, part of our job here as volunteers is going to be to build civic awareness and encourage volunteerism at the local level.  But for now, we stand fast.  Luckily we love Bamenda and don’t mind staying put here, though it’s postponed some hiking trips.

We’ve been seeing status updates on Facebook about the weather turning cooler, people dragging out sweaters and looking forward to hot cider!  Here in the Northwest, the days alternate between sunny and beautiful, or rainy and cool enough for sweaters, soup and hot chocolate – in other words, perfect for the two of us.  “Fall” here means we’re going into dry season, though, which we’re told means beautiful, sunny days alternating with just plain hot – conditions we’re also okay with, since the rain sometimes prevents going to the market, or leaving the house at all.  And we’ve been told a big benefit of dry season means laundry dries in a morning, instead of taking a day or two!  Sometimes it’s those little things that can make all the difference…

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Dear Enrollment Services

 

Wow, guys, we’re overwhelmed!  We got your package today – thank you so much!  We’re so grateful and so touched, we loved looking through the pictures, reading your notes, and are looking forward to enjoying all the goodies in the months ahead!  Thanks for sending us a little bit of the best part of working at CMU over the years.  We’ll be thinking of you guys every time we take a look around the house!

Kiyomi and Jack

Monday, September 5, 2011

And waiting again… or still…

So we may have spoke too soon in the last post.  We’re now being told that the house we signed a lease on is not okay, for various reasons of greater and lesser merit.  Planning to talk to Peace Corps about it and try to get something resolved soon!  We appreciate your prayers.

Friday, August 26, 2011

From one extreme to the other

Week one in Bamenda!  Today our niece turns three, and we’re on the other side of the world.  When we get back to the States, we’ll only be vague shadows in her memory.  We miss our families most during these life events: birthdays, holidays, our swearing-in ceremony.  Even so, we feel an incredible contentment now that we’ve arrived at our post, and are more certain than ever that we are exactly where we’re supposed to be.

If you know us on Facebook, you may have seen that the house found for us when we got here was not what it should have been.  It didn’t meet Peace Corps standards, and was not a place we saw any way that we could make into a home for the next two years.  We know some of you are thinking, we’re in the Peace Corps, we should be living in a grass hut somewhere and thankful for the privilege!  Peace Corps provides housing comparable to that the community a volunteer will work with – and certain things, like enough windows for adequate light and ventilation, no holes in the walls, no vermin, and a safe/secure area, are required.  The first house we saw had none of that and less.  So we were here in the middle of Africa with no place to live.  Fortunately, Brittany, the volunteer Kiyomi stayed with during her site visit, opened her home again to us until we get settled – and extended the invitation to “as long as needed,” after our housing became an issue.  We have been so blessed by her generosity and friendship!

So, housing crisis part two: Brittany has been in the process of finding new accommodations as well, and was told by her landlord on our third day here that he had found a new tenant for September.  So, now there were three of us with no place to go.  Our bosses in the main office seemed not to be interested in this little problem, even though it is technically their responsibility to assure that we have adequate housing.  Luckily enough for us, there’s a new office manager here in Bamenda, who heard of our difficulties, and within a day and a half had four potential places for all three of us to look at.  So after a day of looking at these options, we and Brittany found brand new, neighboring houses – bright, airy, beautiful little palaces, one at the top of a little hill, and the other about three houses down, at the bottom of the hill – that are incredibly nice by American standards.  After another day and a half of getting Peace Corps to talk to the landlord and make the rent arrangements, we signed our leases and filed the paperwork today!  Thank you for all those prayers, because we have been having blessings upon blessings!

Housing crisis, final part: our houses are still being built, so while Brittany has been assured hers will be ready for move-in by the 1st, we’ve been given a date of “maybe by September 15th, but no later than October 1st.”  Thankfully our new friend is the kind you hold tight to and never let go of, and has further extended her invitation for us to move into her new house with her, and when ours is ready, we can simply move our things down the hill.  She assures us we’re great houseguests.  We promised to do our best to continue to be!  So, almost home sweet home.

We’ve been finding our way around our new town, and still are stopped short by the incredible beauty of this place. In the mornings, the distant mountains are just a purple haze, and by noon, that fog has lifted to reveal the most vibrant green, with mists rising up off the trees, only to be broken occasionally by rocky outcrops with perfect white waterfalls streaming down from them.  This is the view in literally every direction.  We feel like we’ve been set in a city that’s grown up in the middle of some forgotten part of Eden.  The people even, overall, seem nicer here.  It’s been fun exploring the markets, seeing where we’ll buy our housewares and furniture once our house is finished, and the market mamas are always kindly indulgent and amused by our attempts to speak Pidgin.

Cooking together again has been so wonderful for us too!  It’s something we’ve almost always done together in our relationship, and whenever we’ve not been able to for whatever reason (enforced traditional gender roles, for example), we find ourselves feeling somewhat off.  Brittany has given us free reign in her kitchen though, so with the fresh produce available every day but Sunday, we’ve been feasting quite well.

We don’t know exactly what shape our work will take yet - although Jack made his first local contact for a secondary IT education project already – and we don’t quite have a place to live yet, but we feel more at home here – right exactly where we’re supposed to be with life - than we’ve ever felt anywhere else since we’ve been together.

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Almost there…

So we’re back to the ten day count down!  We were looking back over our training calendar as we completed evaluations of the program, and just couldn’t believe how much has happened in nine weeks.  We’re passable in Pidgin, reasonably communicative in French, have made some friends we’ll still be calling in twenty years, and have gotten the hang of going about the business of life in a developing West African nation.  Not bad for just shy of three months’ work.

This week we’ll be wrapping up training – final advice for what we should do during our first few months at post – closing the model school, and cramming as much more language training in as we can take.  We have our swearing-in clothes made now – everything tailored to a perfect fit.  I know we haven’t been the best at pictures - the connection is slow when it’s up here - but we’ll get some pictures of our swearing-in and other various scenes of Cameroon posted once we get to Bamenda.

Fun times await, kids!  We’re so excited about not being “homeless” anymore, having our own space, cooking our own food, getting to know our neighbors and community…  and we know that a whole new adventure awaits.  Peace Corps publications readily acknowledge that training has little to do with actually preparing the trainee for living and working in their post community (wait, what??  No, seriously, it’s in official written materials), so here we are, having adjusted admirably to the training environment, we’ve passed the initiation, you might say – yay!  But setting up house in a new place is something we were both literally raised to.  We visited Bamenda separately, and we’re looking forward to showing each other the different places we each found.

In the meantime, here’s a Top Ten list for you.  In no particular order…

Things We’ve Learned in Training

1. Chickens, left to their own devices, fly and roost in trees.  Also, now that we don’t eat it so often as to take it for granted (chicken is something of a delicacy here), we realize it’s really, truly delicious.  And chasing chicken, or watching others do so, really is great stress relief.

2. The fact that that little bird or gecko is an African bird or gecko really does make it cooler.

3. You can fit two grown adults, one stuffed backpacker’s pack and a guitar on a motorcycle (in fact, you’d be amazed at what can be transported by motorcycle).

4. Cameroon’s lack of development has a lot to do with a lot of things that have nothing to do with colonialism, or the first world at all.  Question to ponder: when we call it neglect and others call it parenting, what’s a development worker to do?

5. Hand-washing, with soap, is key.  If this simple truth could be transmitted and adopted, training and the health of trainees would be vastly improved.  So would the long-term health of local families.

6. Peanut butter makes life better.

7. Antelope tastes like cow.

8. One in forty Americans is an idiot who should never be given a passport.  The rest of you, though, start filling out that paperwork!

9. People are always going to behave exactly like people.

10. No matter where we go, when everything else is strange, our God is still God.

And some music for the road… it’s funny because it’s true.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

28 Days

We have 28 days left in Bafia.  Bafia, as some volunteers have pointed out, is really not bad.  It’s pretty, as we said when we first got here, there are good markets, our host family is nice, and we have running water and electricity now and again (sometimes even at the same time!).  We’re so glad to get to live for two years here in Cameroon – if any place qualifies as a contender for “Garden of Eden” status, Cameroon does – and we’re just ready to be “home”!

So we’re trying not to spend too much time living in the future in Bamenda, and make the most of our time here in Bafia.  Our stage has bought our swearing-in pagne (traditional fabric – only not so traditional, it’s Peace Corps 50th Anniversary pagne), and we’ll be getting clothes made in the coming days.  Everyone’s working hard on language acquisition (learning a third language in a second language is not as easy as you might think), and we’ll be wrapping up technical training and model school and the next three and a bit weeks.  We finally broke down and got an American movie from another trainee last night and it did us a world of good!  Jack has been playing “Don’t Stop Believing” once a day (really, how can a person not be in a good mood after that? Though it does make us want chicken wings with Steven and Denise!), and we’ve instituted tuna melt brunch on Sundays after laundry (two sunburns each from laundry days so far – but still no malaria).

Kiyomi and the other SED trainees visited Bangou, a town in the West region, this week.  It was great opportunity to see a microfinance institution, but the main event of the day was meeting the local chief, enjoying a delicious lunch in his compound, and learning a bit about the Bamileke people (still an anthro student at heart!).  There’s a monument on the site of the old slave market in Bangou that stands as a perpetual memorial and apology from the people there to those who were sold and forced to leave their home in sorrow.  The Bamileke believe partings should always be happy; the monument is a means of making amends to the souls of those who were sold into slavery, and assures that their descendants can be happy and prosperous in the United States.  Because of the history between our two countries, the chief said he and his people see Americans as the grandchildren of Cameroon.

Another highlight this week was when the proprietor at one of our regular boutiques (it’s owned by a family, but the person who usually takes care of us is a boy of not more than 11, who’s been tending bar for at least thirty years) decided to have chicken for dinner.  Probably half of our stage spent at least half an hour chasing a furious rooster all around the property, through corn fields, up the road and back (you can post your guesses as to what hilarious and clever thing Jack said at this point in the comments).  This is Peace Corps approved stress relief – last week in our session on stress management, one of the recommendations, along with prayer/meditation, exercise, talking with friends, and journaling, was “chase a goat.”  Most of the goats are tied up here, and so can’t be chased very far.  We think a chicken was a good stand in. 

Last night we had an object lesson in integration.  Peace Corps recently issued us mountain bikes.  We keep them chained on the front porch during the day when we’re not using them, and move them into the kitchen after dinner for overnight.  We moved our bikes to the back step, for ease of transferring them to the kitchen after dinner, went to eat, and when we went to get our bikes, they were gone. Our host family sprang into action, grabbed flashlights (actually our flashlights), and ran out into the rain, with several neighbors joining in the search for our bikes, while we called Peace Corps.  Within forty minutes our bikes were found (hidden very close by; two mountain bikes chained together are pretty heavy) and returned to us.  An interesting cultural note was the most shocking part of it to the Cameroonians who helped us was that it happened while it was raining (you don’t go out when it’s raining here).  Without our friends and neighbors, we wouldn’t have got our bikes back, and would have spent the day with our training director at the police station filing a report.  In Cameroon, people say, “nous sommes ensemble” – we are together – and last night we found that to be true once again.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Wish List

Some of you have been asking about sending packages.  Our address again is:

I Jack Gaines/ Kiyomi Appleton Gaines

Peace Corps Trainee

Corps de la Paix

B.P. 215

Yaoundé, Cameroon

Padded envelopes work well, and it’s recommended to send things air mail (ground can take over two years) and insured, to ensure it gets to us.

Our wish list is:

Hand sanitizer

Tea (especially echinacea and Tazo Passion)

Hot chocolate packets

Wash cloths

Travel sewing kit

Pictures of our friends and family! (that would be you)

Chocolate chip cookies (store-bought; homemade are better, but they probably wouldn’t make it without preservatives)

Oreos

Snickers

Peanut/Almond M&Ms

Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups

Mystery paperbacks (take that as you will, as actual mystery novels, or just surprise ones)

Magazines

Calcium supplements

And always, thank you for all the love and prayers we constantly feel coming our way!

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

A day in the life…

But in this one, nobody dies.

We made it through our two weeks apart – thanks for all the prayers, guys!  Our future home, Bamenda, is just perfect for us, and we can’t wait to get settled there!  For now, we’ve officially made it to the half-way point in our training.  So what does training look like, you may wonder.  Here’s our typical day in Bafia.

We get up between 6 and 6:30, get dressed, and usually our host-mom has beignets and Ovaltine (or some variation on that theme) waiting for us for breakfast.  No Little Orphan Annie decoder rings here though!  Between 7:30 and 7:45 we’re out the door and walk to our separate training facilities by 8.  Throughout the day we have sessions in language (French and Wes Cos Pidgin now), technical training (general info on small enterprise development or teaching, respectively; Jack starts teaching in both English and French this week), cross-culture training, medical/safety info, and vaccinations.  At 10 we get a twenty minute coffee break, then more sessions until 12:20, when we break for lunch.  Local women sell traditional dishes at each of our locations every day, or there are other places within walking distance in our neighborhood where we can get egg (sliced hard boiled egg and mayo, not a bad egg salad substitute) or avocado-salad sandwiches (one of our stagemates pointed out that these sandwiches are,technically, still African food).  After lunch we have sessions until three, when we have another fifteen minute pause before our final session, and we finish most days at 4:30.  After that we usually return home to drop off our bags, and then meet up with the other trainees at a little boutique, which is sort of like a convenience store with tables and chairs out front instead of a parking lot, where we can enjoy a soda or beer or a snack (or all of the above) and have a little downtime before we all return home for our seven o’ clock curfew.  We usually spend a little time in our room on study/prep for the next day, and then join our host family for dinner prep or getting the table set, and then eat together, usually between 8-9, and join them for a little of their favorite French-dubbed telenovellas (predictable plotlines and simple language make it decent language comprehension practice).  By 9 we’re getting showers or bucket baths, then finishing up work for the next day, and bed.  Saturdays we have a half day of training, and then start laundry (it’s kind of an undertaking), or we go into town for grocery or toiletry items we may need, or just to get a change of scenery, and do homework, and Sundays are filled with laundry, sweeping out our room and lots more homework (approximately sixteen years old, remember?).

So that’s our daily grind here.  Not too terrible, but not terribly exciting either.  We’re looking forward to telling you about life at our post in a few short weeks!  Our site visits came just in time, when everyone was about burnt out on our training schedule and in need of a reminder of why we’re all here.  We both feel refreshed and motivated to push through the next month and a bit – the goal is in sight, and it sure is a pretty sight!  An informal poll of our stagemates says the number one thing we’re all looking forward to is cooking our own food, followed closely by not living in someone else’s space!  39 days and counting!

Thursday, June 30, 2011

7 year itch?

We are happy to report that, despite the persistent efforts of our nemesis, and with the help of some bug repellent and Benadryl gel, we’ve been in Cameroon for a month now without contracting malaria!  And yes, though it’s hard to believe, we’re celebrating seven years of marriage here in Bafia.  Would we have guessed back then where we’d be today?  We certainly had high hopes for where the adventure would take us, but we probably would have said something along the lines of, as long as we’re together, we’ll be happy.  Here in Peace Corps Cameroon we’re “The Married Couple,” which people think is cool, and then they proceed to tell us about the other married couples they’ve met in the Peace Corps… all of whom are now divorced.  We’ve gotten our response down to, “we came together, we’ll leave together.”  We’ve definitely had our highs and lows over the years and, looking back, we’ve come through, sometimes struggled through, a lot together – mosquitos and giant spiders and linguistic challenges and cultural confusion have nothing on us!  Each time we just catch each other’s eye and shrug, knowing we’ve been through bigger (okay, that maybe was the hugest spider I’ve ever seen…), badder, harder.  We’re not sure what others come in expecting – if it’s to save or fix a relationship that’s not working, just like that more popular band-aid of reproducing, a mysterious illness causing explosive yuck at two in the morning when the electricity is out and your spouse has “hidden” your flashlight really isn’t going to do it.  If you’re newly-wed and haven’t been friends with your partner for years, and maybe haven’t really touched on any of the “better or worse” stuff yet, maybe hold off on moving to a developing nation.  Or if both people aren’t in this whole Peace Corps thing 100%, see above, it’s kind of enough to make one consider spousicide.   But we’re certain of how good we have it in each other, and this journey is not a fix for anything, but a chance for each of us to see the other rise to meet some crazy individual challenges and goals  (and to experience the “sickness and health” in a whole new way…), and be completely impressive doing it.

It really has been a rollercoaster ride though!  We picked our previous analogy better than we knew.  And not just day to day, but hour to hour.  Some moments we are cursing the cultural or linguistic challenges that make basic communication into a huge production, or the fact that the sudden and inexplicable lack of those little creature comforts you can sometimes take for granted – like electricity, or running water – makes EVERYTHING a challenge.  The next moment we’re talking with our host-mom and not grabbing the dictionary every other word, successfully navigating our way around town, being welcomed by a community host like long-lost family.  Sometimes it’s even more simple than that: warm beignets in the morning, spotting hornbills flying overhead, the perfect view of the mountains, a nice cold Top Pamplemousse, or the shared excitement of the water being back on!  We definitely aim to keep our updates upbeat, because we are happy to be here, and at least 80% of the time is great. 

Before joining the Peace Corps consider that 20% of the time, you may well hate your life and wonder what you are doing.  Getting up first thing in the morning for training is not going to be any better than getting up for work, and will probably be worse.  Peace Corps wants highly motivated and independent people to send out to build capacity in the developing world; Peace Corps Training believes you’re approximately sixteen years old and very irresponsible.  And also grounded.  If it’s raining, you can’t wash your clothes.  It sometimes rains for weeks, but your host family will still be unhappy that your clothes aren’t washed often enough.  (Bring a portable clothesline, and “clothes for a week,” is about 3 shirts, 3 undershirts, and 3 bottoms you can interchange – we packed way too many clothes.)  A lot of places, and Cameroon specifically, view women in terms of services they can provide for men (yes, services).  Peace Corps training for some reason likes to have different culture groups makes lists enumerating these kinds of important cultural things.  It can be disturbing and disheartening to see half the human population reduced to words like “materialistic,” “jealous,” “weak,” and “property,” and have that be what you’re greeted with when you walk in every day for a week.  (We’ve also met several Cameroonian men who are really good people and treat the women they work with as the competent people they are.)

We’ve found it really interesting to note that living in Cameroon is strangely like the United States about fifty years ago.  Dad goes to work in a suit every morning; Mom may work outside the home, but her primary responsibility (solely hers) is to keep house and raise the kids (if she can’t work and keep house to the expected standard, it’s her responsibility to hire a housekeeper); sons play sports; daughters set the table and distract the younger kids; everyone has dinner together, usually some form of starch and meat, around the TV.  This raises the question; is Cameroon like the US circa 1957 because Peace Corps (and other international development efforts) has been here for the last fifty years, or simply because it has been fifty years?  Will gender equality come to Cameroon in twenty years because that’s the natural progression of cultural development, and women are starting to be more educated and ask why domestic responsibilities are solely theirs? (Even if the woman is the sole income earner, she is still also solely responsible for household duties.)  Or will it have something, anything, to do with international efforts to increase the number of girls given access to education worldwide?  We don’t have the answers, though we suspect they are somewhere in the middle.  We do continue to believe that we’re here for a reason, and that if we can help one person make their own life a little bit better in some way, that’s something, and impacting one life to some benefit it worthwhile.  Only a month in, we can say ours already have been.

Friday, June 24, 2011

Bamenda!

Three weeks in Cameroon, and the Education trainees have learned where they will be posted – so, even though Kiyomi is a Small Enterprise Development trainee, WE know we’ll be living in the city of Bamenda!

Bamenda is in the Northwest region, it is the capital of the Anglophone part of the country, and it’s in the part of the country where most of the “traditional African” masks you may have seen in pictures or museums come from.  Bamenda is at a higher elevation, so is somewhat cooler than it is here in Bafia (though with the rains this week, it’s been almost chilly here sometimes, and we haven’t had enough sun to assure our laundry will dry, so we had to wash some clothes in buckets in the bathroom this week – between our travel clothesline and a fan in our room, we managed to dry them).  Jack and the ED trainees will be going on site-visit to the various posts (each to his or her own future home) next week (though our director is arranging for us to spend our anniversary together!), and then Kiyomi will be going the following week, when the rest of the SED trainees go on site-visit.  Please keep us in prayer in the two weeks when we’ll be traveling (bush taxis will be an adventure!) and apart.  No complaints, though!  Two weeks apart is way better than three months!

We made baguette pizzas for our host family last night.  They were a hit!  We’re thinking Guinness stew next time, from Kiyomi’s family recipe.  Highlights of the week: we’ve explored one of the markets, learned to insist on the real price, not the “white” price (our trainers, intending to reassure us, said that any kind of attention/harassment/annoyance we may run into is not because we’re Americans, but because we’re white – we didn’t try to explain the American phenomena of “multi-racial”), took a couple moto taxis into centreville and the supermarche, where we were able to find canned mushrooms and olive oil, taken beaucoup de bucket baths and spent a morning in the bathroom doing laundry in buckets!  This week has also been better than last for “hitting walls” – we just may be acculturating!  Doing battle with a few more African viruses this week, though just colds this time.  We’ll try to get some pictures up at some point, but “highspeed” is relative here.

Saturday, June 18, 2011

We’re still alive!

So, we’re still here, the internet connectivity has just not been great.  Our second week has been fine, we’re in good health, but both of us have been hitting walls this week – as have most of our stagemates.  We just reach our fill at times of speaking French, eating strange foods, bucket baths, etc.  Usually we’ve bounced back by the next day, but sometimes it’s a challenge.  We’re so glad to be going through training with a group of people who understand exactly how we feel, and there’s always someone who can commiserate and encourage.  There have been several current volunteers who have come into town to help in our training, and they all assure us that training is the hardest part of service.  We’re all ready to get to our posts, cook our own food, and have our own space!  Eight weeks to go…

Next week the Education trainees will find out where they will be posted and go on a site-visit, and the following week the Small Enterprise Development trainees will go, so we will be apart for those two weeks.  Our director has said he will arrange for us to be together for our anniversary though!  And we’re very excited to find our where we’ll be living for the next two years!

Bless the rains

We made it through our first week in Africa!  Here are some of the highlights:

Everyone in our staging group is really cool.  They’re mostly in their mid-twenties, though we have a few who are fresh out of college (graduating only two or three weeks ago) and a few who are closer to our age.  The flights were unremarkable, we slept a lot.

We were met at the airport by our Country Director, who is really nice, and got us through customs and baggage claims and to our hotel quickly.  Yaounde was pretty, but not like any Western capital city you’ve even seen (Yaounde is the cultural capital of Cameroon, Douala is the economic capital).  There were lots of single-story tin-roofed buildings, homes and shops, spread out, with the occasional larger cement brick “high-rise,” between lots of trees and foliage.  We have had so much crammed in to our first days here: language assessment, vaccinations, health and safety briefings, cross-cultural training.  It’s been a lot to process.  We also had a dinner at the Country Director’s home and got to meet the Ambassador and his wife, which was pretty cool.

Now we are in Bafia, which is prettier and more lush that Yaounde.  We’re in the rainy season here, and we get some good downpours every other day or so, with occasional showers in between.  If we can get pictures up, we will.  To Western eyes, it looks more rural than urban.  Most of the roads are red dirt, and there are plants and animals everywhere!  The food is really good, most everything is seasoned with a red pepper sauce called piment.  Pineapples are in season right now, and we’ve had some with lunch almost every day.  So are bananas, which are a different variety than we had in the States, and are a bit sweeter.  We also ate carp the other day – very tasty!  Keep that in mind if you get the opportunity to eat the invasive Aisian carp in the Midwest!

We are living together in the same homestay!  We’re so happy about that, and our host family is probably the best of our group.  Two parents, one younger brother, one little nephew, and two children (one a baby) live here, and now us.  Our family has been so welcoming, eternally patient, and accommodating of us.  We were greeted with cold water and a fan in our room (the fan makes all the difference, and paired with a cool shower/bucket bath in the evening, we don’t even miss air conditioning).  We go to training all day, and spend the evenings talking with our host parents (again with their great patience as we stutter and stammer our way through French – but we’re having actual conversations!), or playing with the kids.  Our host parents are our age, so we don’t call them Mom or Dad like some of the others in our group do in their families.  Some of our stagemates’ (fellow trainees) time is pretty scheduled, but we come and go as we please, and if we need some alone time, we’re able to find it.  They don’t like the way we do laundry – we don’t scrub vigorously enough, and our Dr. Bronner’s bar soap was deemed cute but inappropriate for actually cleaning anything – but today, our host-mom said we’d done a good job of washing our sheets (when she was gone), so we guess we don’t do too badly…  We’re sure there are many other things that we do strangely, or with questionable ability, but they’ve let those things slide.

Things we wish we’d brought, for those of you who were interested in sending care packages: Hand Sanitzer!  This is a serious need, not just a crazy Western germophobe thing.  The water goes out every other day or so here, along with the electricty, and we’re pretty limited on options to keep our hands clean throughout the day.  Also, more tiny washcloth-sized microfiber towels (like those found at REI), because when we can, or invent the means to, wash our hands, there’s no way to dry them.  Portability is key.  Lastly, hot chocolate, Tazo Passion tea, and echinacea tea would be nice!

So, things we’ve learned so far, for future volunteers: Really, don’t worry about clothes.  Bring enough for a week or so.  Go ahead and bring your white/light colored things.  Hand washing is so much more effective than a machine at getting the dirt out.  A deodorant stone is a sound investment for avoiding pit stains on your shirts while staying funk-free.  About a quarter of us have been dealing with (we think) bacterial dysentery (yes, really), which sucks enormously (Kiyomi has gone through the entire supply of rehydration salts issued in her medkit), but it passes in about a week (no pun intended), and then you’re still here, living in one of the most gorgeous places on our planet!  Bring powdered Gatorade, or some equivalent.  Also bring a light (flashlight or headlamp), because the electricity goes out pretty frequently.  Also, take naps.  Our whole group has been surprised by how tired we are pretty much all the time, even after our normal amount of sleep, but this is kind of a huge thing, your body needs time to adjust to a whole new environment, and Peace Corps gives you so much new information, all while you’re trying to communicate in a new language – naps are good.

So, we’re here!  Safe and sound and happy and mostly healthy, with nine and a half weeks of training to go.  It feels like months since we said goodbye and got on a plane.  We should know where we’ll be posted in early July!  In the meantime we’ll be working to get to our required French proficiency and just taking in all in.

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

What comes along...

So, here's our answer to the question posed previously of what you carry with you when you can only bring two checked bags and a carry-on when leaving your country for two years.

Here's... The Packing List
 (weighing in at approximately 120lbs of checked baggage; the clothing list is Kiyomi's, Jack is bringing a similar list of things)
6 tank tops
7 shirts
3 cover-ups (light-weight sweater things)
1 sweater
3 skirts
4 pants (1 capri)
1 bathing suit and rash guard (diving shirt)
1 jacket
1 sweatshirt
1 shawl/poncho thing
1 belt
assorted underthings and socks
4 hats
2 sunglasses
2 umbrellas
2 flashlights (dive light)
2 travel towels
2 hammocks (they served us well in Mexico)
2 camp mirrors
2 iPod shuffles full of music (thanks to our former coworkers!)
insect repellent
Benadryl gel (for those spots we miss with the bug repellent)
toothbrush and paste
shampoo
soap
deoderent
Japanese washcloths
razor and replacement blades
2 masks and snorkels (just in case! - thanks Leah!)
shoe polish kit
dress shoes
flip flops
Vibram five fingers
neti pot
jump rope
exercise bands
Gatorade powder
2 kitchen knives
pour over coffee basket and filter
personal French press
personal coffee carafe
assorted spices
vitamins and prescriptions for three months
sandwich size Ziplock bags
1 journal
2 mini travel sized bibles
1 day planner
2 laptops (thanks Dad!)
2 flash drives
external hard drive
Peace Corps Volunteer paperwork and handbooks
1 notebook
chapstick
bobby pins and hair ties
measuring cup
measuring spoons
travel Scrabble, Uno, and a deck of cards
underwater camera housing (it gets rainy...)
camera
sunscreen
extra soap (Mom-made), shampoo, sunscreen, toothbrushes and make-up (3 months worth)
2 passport/money belts
vegetable peeler
hair cutting scissors
speakers
duct tape
straight razor and strop
shaving brush and cup
coconut oil (read the SAS book - it's good for everything)
face lotion
2 combination padlocks

So, we hope this is as helpful to other adventurers as previous PCVs' packing lists have been to us.  And if we find we've forgotten something that we can't live without, remember our address is listed down below!  Actually, as we prepare for staging tomorrow, we'd just really love to know there are comments, e-mails or letters on their way from home when we land in Africa!

We'll post again as soon as we can.

Sunday, May 29, 2011

Back where we started

So after three weeks we are back where we started.  What an incredible trip, and we haven’t really even left yet.  A couple nights ago we were rolling into Pittsburgh after surviving a downpour in the mountains in Virginia.  The bridges were all lit up and there was no one else on the road.  You know you’re loved when you show up on someone’s doorstep at three in the morning and are met with a hug and sent to a comfy bed.  We finished up the last of our business (cleaning our apartment), got coffee at our favorite coffee shop (Espresso A Mano in Lawrenceville – the coffee’s delicious, the baristas are awesome – ask for a pour over and tell them hi from Cameroon for us!), and then got back on the road.

So here we are back in the DC area with three days to go.  There have certainly been times in the last month when we’ve asked ourselves what we’re doing, and we probably are a little nuts; getting rid of most everything we owned, boxing up the rest, quitting our jobs to make a mad dash around the country before moving to Africa is not the typical next step after college, marriage, and good jobs.  But then as the miles of road disappear beneath our front bumper, and even more miles of road and ocean and who knows what else stretch out ahead, now and again we’ll catch each other’s eye and see the contentment of starting out on the next adventure and embracing the maxim we started our marriage adventure with: hold tight to each other’s hand and jump.  It’s always served us well and problems seem to show up only when we’re doing something else.  So as long as God will keep leading, we’ll keep jumping, and do our best to learn and love and encourage and serve wherever we land.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

When in Houston...

If you get to the Houston area on a Monday night, stop by McGonigel's Mucky Duck for their open mic.  You'll get to hear some of the best musicians you've never heard of (yet), if you're lucky Wayne will get up and play guitar (we were very lucky), and you might just run into Jack's dad (tell him hello for us!).

Last night we really enjoyed the performers we got to hear, especially The Poor Kings.

Monday, May 23, 2011

It’s good to be back in Texas

If you know us, you know we’re “from” Texas, where “from” means that we lived here back in the day, and it’s where we, as a couple, got started.  We both lived in Texas for more years than any other place – not saying much, since our average has been about three years, but still we were here for some growing up and through college.  You might not know that neither of us liked Texas at first – it was too hot, too far from the water, and people get tattoos in the shape of the state.  They’re a strange breed, those Texans.  But then we left and we missed our friends and the music and sitting in a hot car after coming from an over-air conditioned building, the idea that driving an hour is “not far,” everyone saying hello on the street, cowboy hats that are not intended as a fashion statement, and the contraction “y’all” (“you all” – it’s a legitimate contraction!).

We got here via Mississippi, the Gaines homeland (for a given value of “homeland”), where we spent time rowing around a little lake (so great after so much sitting in the car!) and picking blackberries.  Despite our quality assurance along the way, we actually got a decent amount of berries into the container.

And here we are, at the furthest point on our trip before we turn around.  Reflection time, people!  Our car got sold half-way here.  We were looking to sell it and at the same time someone we’d never met was looking for a car, and on both sides, everywhere we looked, things were falling through - we still holding a car we only need for a few more weeks, and he still without - until finally, in a stroke of serendipity and grace, we were brought together!  We hit annoying delays, random stuff that has just held us up, keeping us from the road – the tow dolly not working, was a big one, but other things have come up too, as they will – but instead of limiting our already too shortened time, it seems to only have given us more time in the arms of our family – time for one more meal with  each of Kiyomi’s parents, flying kites with the little nieces who will not be so little when we get back, a visit to a great brew pub in Florida with Greg and Angela, blackberry picking and visiting with the Gaines’.  And in the annals of perfect timing, we were crossing the Mississippi just at the crescendo of U2’s “The Saints Are Coming.”  We’ve said before that we’ve had green lights all the way on this adventure, and it continues with each arising need being met with abundance.  We continue to be so grateful for and humbled by the outpouring of support in resources, love and prayer.  We thank God for his constant provision, and with nine days to go – we can hear the slow clicking of our box car reaching the very top of this roller coaster – we’re  as ready as we’re going to be.  Deep breath.  Hold tight.  Wait for it.  10…  9…

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

We made it to Florida...

We've made it to Florida, our southernmost point in the new world on this trip!  We've managed so far not to use the AC in our vehicles, and the AC is currently down at the house here - the locals aren't happy about it, but we've been taking every opportunity to acclimate to warmer temperatures.
We left Virginia and stopped in South Carolina to spend some time with Kiyomi's sister and family, where we also sold our car (barring catastrophe! - Thanks Michelle and John for getting that all set up!)  Then we had a great week with Kiyomi's dad in Georgia, including a visit to the Renfest and the Shakespeare Tavern to see Kiyomi's favorite play.  If you are in the Atlanta area, Shakespeare Tavern is always a treat - good food and a great performance, guaranteed!  We were so glad to be rid of the moving truck and back in our little car for the duration of our trip.  Once we got everything off-loaded and stored in the house, we got to spend some time getting packed up for the rest of our trip and Cameroon!  Given some additional information we recently received from our country desk, we'll be making some further revisions - packing details to follow...
The time continues to just fly by, and it was time to say goodbye and continue south before we were ready.  But here we are in sunny Florida with Kiyomi's brother and his wife, and the tears on the way down have turned to pretty much non-stop laughter.  We have more bittersweet times ahead as we head west to visit Jack's family soon.  These goodbyes are not getting easier with practice!  But for now, we are just enjoying the time we have with our loved ones.

An Appleton tradition when visiting Renaissance Festivals here in the south is to find where Tartanic is playing!  The pipes!  The drums!  The kilts!  The great accents!  Here's more of our farewell soundtrack for your enjoyment...
http://www.tartanic.net/

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Travels and Travails

So, we finally got out of town around 11am on the 8th!  It took approximately nine years to finish packing up - thanks to those friends who stopped by to lend a hand!  Once we packed 50-55 small boxes (I wanted to get down to 20 - next time, I guess) and loaded them into the truck, got 8 bags of trash thrown out, and 3 more bins plus some to bring to Goodwill, taking a four hour break for a nap sometime around midnight (the packing in zombie mode thing was not working so well for us), we were eager to get on the road!
And then the car wouldn't fit on the tow dolly. On Sunday.  There are two raised parts at the front of a tow dolly that your tires are supposed to fit snuggly between, then you strap them down, and you're on your way.  Theoretically.  Our front bumper was too low to allow our tires to get where they needed to be.
Penske was awesome though!  We called the number on our invoice, the woman there was very sympathetic to our difficulties.  The place we'd rented the truck from was closed, but good news, she found a place in Monroeville that was still open - bad news, only for about twenty more minutes.
So she called and talked to the guy there, then put us through to talk to the guy there.  Good news, he had a car carrier there: bad news, it was missing an essential strap.  Could he stay put until we got across town and look again for a strap?  Otherwise, we would drop off the tow dolly and one of us would drive the truck and the other would drive the Fit.  All the way to Georgia.
But we got to Penske in Monroeville, and the guy was still there, and he had found an extra strap, and he changed out the tow dolly for the car carrier and got our car hooked up, and sent us on our way with well wishes and a smile.
Finally, we got on our way!
And after 7 days of goodbyes, 6 nights of trying to get organized while still getting up for 5 days of work, followed by a day and a half of frantic sorting and boxing, on roughly 5 hours of sleep a night, this is an artist's approximation of what your wandering Gaines' looked like on Monday:

Friday, May 6, 2011

The Great Gaines and Losses Farewell Tour




Tomorrow is the launch of The Great Gaines and Losses Farewell Tour (thanks, John M., for the title!).  I was going to get T-shirts made with all our stops and dates, but we ran out of time.  So instead, just imagine, slate blue jersey cotton (organic and fare trade!), on the front an outline that vaguely resembles a chicken (that would be Cameroon), and on the back, in basic black, the information below!

 So where does one find one’s wandering wild Gaines’ in the coming weeks?  I’m glad you asked!
DC Area – May 7-9

Warner Robins, GA – May 10-15
Tampa, FL – May 16-19









Houston, TX – May 20-25

Flyover Country – May 26-27 (driving)








Fairfax, VA – May 28-31
Philadelphia, PA – June 1

Brussels, Belgium – June 2 (approx. 3 hours)

Yaounde, Cameroon – June 3!

If all these tour dates put you in the mood to actually hear some music, here are a few of the guys we’ll be listening to on the road!



Sunday, May 1, 2011

Goodbye for now...


The goodbyes have started in earnest this week.  A few of our coworkers are out for our last week at work, so it began early.  Everyone has those days of counting down to the next vacation, or thinking the last thing you want to do is go into the office this morning, even if you have your dream job.  Then suddenly, here we are saying goodbye to people we’ve seen every day and grown to care about, and it’s so hard.  Next week will be our official going away parties, and we’ll be emptying out our cubes.  So, five working days left… four… three…
Today was our last day at church.  We were so humbled by all the encouragement and prayers both in church and at a small, celebratory gathering with a few people afterward.
Even as our excitement to go builds with each passing day, the last few years in Pittsburgh have been good to us.  We’re both glad and sorry to see the time end, and it’s going too fast.  We visit with friends, knowing it’ll be the last time, at least for a while, and we promise each other, “in two years…”
We’re so grateful for the send off and the knowledge of all the support we have going with us!  These last things are so hard to get through, even though we know that on the other side of it is a new, exciting adventure that we’ve been so looking forward to, but we promise to come back to visit!
Last night we went to the PAPCA (Pittsburgh Area Peace Corps Association) welcome back/send off dinner and had a great time talking to other invitees/nominees and past volunteers.  For the first time we were told malaria is not necessarily inevitable – good news!  We also heard again and again that it was hard, sometimes frustrating, that for the first six months you can’t get a thing done because you can’t understand anyone or make yourself understood, and that every one of them would do it again in a heartbeat, that it was all worth it, and that it was one of the most rewarding experiences they’ve ever had.  That sounds good to us.
It’s also been so exciting for us to watch our faith in God’s timing come into fruition.  We are boldly going where many have gone before us, but many of you know that this time came much more quickly than expected, leaving us only three weeks to say goodbye to our lives and home here so we can say goodbye to our families elsewhere.  Today furniture has started walking out of our apartment!  We thank God that he has all these details worked out, and that we get to watch as things fall into place each step of the way.
So, whether we’ve said it recently, or will be saying it soon: to our Pittsburgh friends and loved ones, goodbye for now.

Our address in Cameroon will be:
Peace Corps Trainees
Corps de la Paix
B.P. 215
Yaoundé, Cameroon

Friday, April 22, 2011

Easter...

For Christians this weekend represents a time of remembered loss and of hope, a time of sad farewells and new beginnings.  It seems an appropriate time for us to begin our season of saying goodbye as we go into the start of a new chapter in our lives together.  After months of waiting, now everything seems to be moving so fast, we’re wondering how there will be time to fit everything in, but we do believe (and remind ourselves) that everything will happen when it’s supposed to.
We’ve had some interest in furniture this week - although nothing is out of the apartment yet, we still see that as a great thing!  Last night we took our double bed apart and wrestled the baseboard and box spring and mattress down the stairs and through a doorway cut for one slender person to fit through – nothing and no one broke! horray for more small miracles! - to be stored in our guest room for pick up tomorrow morning.  We’re so excited about our apartment emptying out!  Tomorrow also brings another Goodwill run – we wonder often how it is we came to have so much stuff that we don’t care to keep as we make trip after trip to our Goodwill.  The drop off attendant recognizes us now.  Strangely though, we feel more energized and happy about making donations than we do about making purchases.  We’ve been really working to simplify our lives over the last year, inspired partly the Peace Corps, partly by our church (http://www.riversideconnect.org/), and partly by our dream of retiring to a sail boat.  (If you’re curious, we found some good ideas and things to think about at rowdykittens.com – and how can you not love the name?)  The things we’ve decided to store for our return (thanks Dad!) each have a history or specific purpose to them, and we want to only carry things from place to place each time we move that hold memories and tell a story (okay, several pots and pans, sadly, have no story, but they’re really good).
We’re limited to two bags each, both not weighing more than 80 pounds together, and neither bag weighing more than 50 pounds alone.  It seems clothing will be easy and inexpensive to have made, so we’re bringing only a few good (sturdy yet professional) changes of clothes, and plan to have things that are appropriate to the culture and climate of our new home made for us once we get there.  We’ll have a journal and a camera, bibles, cumin, paprika, black pepper and Penzey’s Mural of Flavor (spices, on the other hand, are expensive and hard to come by!).  We’ll bring pictures of our families.  We’ll bring three months of toiletries to get us through our training period.  Our list continues, and once it’s final we’ll post that up so you can see what fits into four suit cases when you leave the country for two years!  We’ve read every Peace Corps packing list we can find, and figure it’s our duty to continue the tradition.  What would you bring if you could only pack two suit cases, and everything else had to be left behind?

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

So it begins...

I, am accepting my invitation to serve as a NGO Developer Peace Corps Volunteer in Cameroon, departing June 1, 2011.

I hereby certify that I have read the Volunteer Assignment Description, Online Welcome Book, and Core Expectations and agree to abide by the policies therein.
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So it begins!  Above is the body of the e-mails we had to send to officially accept our invitation.  We're moving to Cameroon on June 1st!  That still seems more like a dream than reality, and now and then we just look at each other and laugh, "Hey, remember how we're moving to AFRICA?"  The apartment is full of boxes and furniture that's half deconstructed and shoved into odd places for pictures.  We've settled on our moving truck company and started getting things on Craigslist to sell.  Please pray everything sells by May 1st, and also that we'll have someone to take over the last month of our lease - otherwise we may be required to pay rent through June.

We've been led to believe that malaria is an inevitability and we should treat any fever as such.  We'll do our best to forestall said inevitability as long as possible with mosquito netting (I always wanted a "princess" bed with netting around it as a little girl!) and bug poison, but don't be alarmed!  While it will surely suck, it's par for the course, Peace Corps has lots of experience with this, and we're adventurers after all...  Yes, we do hope to one day legitimately put "adventurer" under our names on business cards.

We expect we will have access to the internet periodically, and will post updates here when we're able.  As of May 7th, we plan to be on the road on our Farewell Tour to squeeze our families a last time until 2013.  We don't have our final itinerary yet, but definitely will be in Georgia and Texas in the next few weeks.